A lot of investigation make clear, male people takes place an affair easily when the wife is pregnant. So, look in a lot of experts, pregnancy is a crises in marriage, accordingly, be enmeshed when the happiness of life of be pregnant with is medium when you, he is a few more occurrent perhaps delicate change.

1. He and child contend for wife

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See a man be in in one's childhood behave: Their meeting habit is a center with ego, they like family to turn round oneself, they hope family satisfies all his requirements, anyhow, male people rises from the first day when be born, having more having than the girl desire.

After growing up so, male people is seemingly powerful, but in domesticity, he still can resemble sometimes grow not big child. He is met the special honour that those enjoy a childhood and prerogative, the hope comes in life of outspread and excellent front courtyard. Cross a kind as far as possible for instance " the meal comes dehisce, the clothes will stretch one's hand " the life. In fact, inside that paragraph of time that marries at first, all these he can achieve what one wishes, because,most wife is met love and the passion to matrimony, had taken care of oneself husband.

However, be pregnant when the wife, all these prerogative was stripped. Little life held all body and mind of the woman now, because of powerful maternity, the woman puts energy on the darling body that will be born, because this is likely oversight the husband. 字串5

Look at a wife to hear prenatal education music everyday, prepare the diaper of little baby, how can male people think? On one hand, they enjoy this kind of gratification that will become father namely, but on the other hand, they are met again behave not without what envy and break be born to look at a wife. He envies already the happiness that you want to do a mother -- because he cannot experience this kind of happiness, at the same time lose is at oneself in wife memory positional fall. That returns what not was born " a third party " have so great power unexpectedly, sweep across this person to his love and go, it is to allow his have no other way really.

2. Angst of his meeting sex

The wife was pregnant, so you often can comply with the advice of experts, self-conscious break down or the number that reduce sexual life. Although not be the consideration that stems from security, you also can be in this period, decrease naturally to the desire of sexual life, because heart of your whole body was full of the joyance that does a mother, your attention goes by the little life drag in of that future completely.

But, the man is different. Scientific test makes clear, the man can produce one-time illusion 6 minutes every. If have very long period of time in, you do not live sexual life, he is looked at everyday touching however at the moment nearly do not get you, how does the meeting in the heart think?

Right now, if as it happens has a beautiful beauty to eyebrow makes eyes at sb while others are not looking to him or throw oneself into his arms, or a few brothers that be close friends invite him to go wind month place comes loose beguilement, so, he " for the gender off the rails " possibility increases greatly. After all managering, his meeting afterthought not is reached, can abhor oneself behavior, after all, when your an abyss of suffering prepares to do mom, he however outside tasteful and happy, but, the man's desire is not dictate with reason sometimes, this is most affair is the directest because of,move.

3. He can become apprehensive

Jiessie of 32 years old says: "That paragraph of time, I am sampling the joyance that is about to become father, but do not know why, a lot of night are in insomnia. Once I became father,I am thinking, how should assume father's responsibility. I want of the child foster a problem, he should go up what kind of school, how is materially arranged, all these lets me feel pressure is significant. All these lets me feel pressure is significant.. 字串9

Do not want the suffer from imaginary fears of strange male people, be in at present this turbulent times, the job, affection present a kind extremely flabby when decided position, male people can think: If I am unemployed, can I raise my child? Social life is complicated, how do I ensure the child to be brought up in safety smoothly?

From fast ancient, male people is gifted to raise the home, protect the important task of the wife, so male people is in acuteness competitive environment the hardship consciousness that fosters is more intense, they know, unless oneself are enough powerful, otherwise, beg in the society of the law of jungle live, not be an easy thing.

4. His meeting occurrence pregnancy is asked for integratedly

Because be pregnant, your bodily form produces change, the mood becomes nervous and uneasy. Any small businesses become your mood storm likely. You are met an a few angst, the mood of be agitated abreacts to go up to his body, right now, he can bear silently only, because of unripe child is not him, more what is more,the rather that he is a man -- ground of our society perfectly justified so think. 字串4

But in that paragraph of day, his unlike can stay in the home to do an accurate mom whole-heartedly like you. He wants hard job to raise the home by day, see the boss' look, return the habit that give up wants to do housework less before not to do chore even in the home, want attentive and considerate you, want assumes those who take care of a family heavy responsibility, right now, if he does not belong the person with excess energy fitly, inevitable meeting feels be mentally and physically exhausted.

So, when becoming accurate father, his mood becomes likewise possibly depressed, this originates just about probably his daily life pressure.

5. His human communication decreased

The man is gregarious animal, after issueing a class so, although do not have necessary dinner party, even if be in the office to play dozen of game, they also aux would rather person a pair of busy appearance. A man that no hurry can be regarded as to do not have the mark of the career, so he always has a few good brothers, prop up remove him to live in the socialization beyond the family,

Be being encouraged with the woman come home, should differ inherently in godchild of home photograph husband, the society encourages a man to throw complete energy excellent front courtyard rarely in the life, the man crosses be used to footloose, unrestrained life, although after marriage, their heart is put very hard also on the family intently. Responsibility is must, but he still can feel very uneasy, at least, he can yearn for those unrestrained days.

6. He feels disgusted to be preached

After you are pregnant, all sorts of care nature following sb's heels and come, especially your mom. In her heart, you still are a girl that was not brought up. You also should do mom nowadays, she understands this naturally among them difficult, she worries about husband careless, not quite attentive, right now so most family is: Do wife's mother come actively right now, willing made compulsory nurse.

But this baby-sitter looks in the man, can not be so good lackey. He listens apparently can deferentially, in the heart very uneasy however. Because self-righteous man is very much, the man is being taught as a child everything wants him make a decision, although be in domesticity, he always also should be a backbone, he is clever, doughty, calm, able -- this is the man's proud all the time society evaluation, but, produce because of wife pregnant, arrived unexpectedly in the home " a title assumed by an emperor's father who abdicated in favor of his son " point to 3 to him 4, if you form unified alignment to hit with the mother again unluckily,press him, he feels naturally very uncomfortable. More what is more,the rather that, the illicit close sex that husband and wife lives is broken, his meeting in a state of anxiety is at a loss like that.

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