Preferment: Wait not as good as!

25 years old - if professional male of 35 years old is not lazy, and enough self-confidence, supporting high-spirited combat effectiveness with respect to middleman and guarantor of can on-the-job field. An average employee longs to be approbated by group and boss; If he is heading this group, he longs to be approbated by person of the same trade and society.

The ambition that inherent self-respect and self-improvement are supporting professional man -- go all out in work, win more praise and applause.

Xiaoxu of 28 years old is the member that the advertisement with an assiduous job is designed, he spends majority time on the job, a few large designs that take over gradually since last year still make him depressed be not gotten annals.

He complains say: "I had stayed two years here time, a lot of people that take a company together with me got preferment chance. I am done and be not differred than them. I am done and be not differred than them.. 字串1

This an outstanding student that is graduated from Beijing some college to design major had taken 3 companies, final because of suffer from cannot sufficient him put to good use talent and the option leaves. "I still face such dilemma now, I feel company upper levels appears to make achievement turn a blind eye to to my labour. I feel company upper levels appears to make achievement turn a blind eye to to my labour..

This kind of trouble has common sense in the circle of professional male: Talent is not taken seriously, aspiration cannot put to good use, struggling achievement by again and again oversight, the literary talent of a person, passion and fight are troubled by these little bad news is smooth.

If the man is in 40 years old before still do not have " odd " , mean complete failure probably, this kind of person is limit make driving psychological suggestion, make professional male easier patience is lost before the setback.

According to expert analysis, the youth is general mix flightily eager for quick success and instant benefit psychology is to cause its state of mind the main factor of serious unbalance. Meanwhile, the game regulation of a few enterprises of our country is not quite perfect, be deficient in system of scientific choose and employ persons generally, bring about a youth to lack sufficient play space. 字串1

Chen Jun of secretary-general of center of countrywide talent flow thinks, brutal social competition lets a youth be eager to proving he does not have not not be meddlesome, this has the effect that drives actively to the job and society. But the state of mind that how the youth maintains a kind of nature, good-tempered is more important, everything is not exacting.

"One can immerse oneself in the job only or meet the man of carefully watch what sb is doing and saying succeed impossibly truly only, should learn how to be both find delicate balance, allow all effort thereby get twice the result with half the effort. Allow all effort thereby get twice the result with half the effort..

　　 Body: Consider be not gotten!

Duty field is like battlefield, all-time the contemporary competition of miserable intense forces people must lower his head maly forward, any successes in order to damage the body, use up energy to be cost. Face health and career, the conquer instinct with male inherent people often makes its oversight former, suffer from thereby on " collective disease " .

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Mr Sun that does It " like " with him oppose, just he 30 years old has begun Xie Ding. He describes his job so: One year 11 months are plunged into software is developed in the office, another month is used up basically meeting and business are exhibited to negotiate in all sorts of It on. The working way of risk one's life needlessly makes he becomes company project chief, but his body also issues a warning at the same time. 字串7

"My stomach trouble has a relapse this year, very serious, but I do not have time be in hospital, basically be to lose no less than jobs. Basically be to lose no less than jobs..

Live even if work, now if not risk one's life needlessly, the affirmation after a few years is washed out. "I am maintained only, maintain, assemble pen money is emeritus. " the dream that the illusion of Mr Sun also is character of elite of most It course of study. Nowadays, he still resembles cannot stopping the top that turn forever only in ZhongGuanCun, to win out, must turn more quickly than other top.

Develop to depth as market economy, make increasingly agile diversity with man-machine, rise quickly also to the requirement of professional skill, make professional male must bear the weight of heavier and heavier live pressure, it is especially in a few as close together as market connection industries, wait like It, sale, media, estate, investment, information, there are 90% aboves to sigh with emotion in 40 years old of the following profession males oneself can't bear heavy burden. "Earn money desperately 40 years old before, beautiful money maintains an order after 40 years old " the axiom that becomes comply with of man of field of a few duty. 字串3

Unemployed: Cheesy little!

Unemployed, one makes the word of become terror-stricken at the news of middleaged profession male, once it transfers to finish tense, can strip easily all happiness of a person.

Be in a few big companies or big company, if your position is,just catch via going all out in work for years too in one's hand. So, unemployment is a bullet, enough is in attack the back that breaks you can't bear heavy burden instantly.

The Wang Dong that once worked more than 5 years in business of a pharmacy, this year in August savor unemployed flavor, he 35 years old says himself everyday so acedia in the evening that want to cry. "I have the home, have wife, have the child, once was an outstanding technician, when message cutting down the member of persons employed is transmitted, I feel the day collapsed. " Wang Dong moves back and forth often at talent market from now on, can want to find than once upon a time condition better or it is difficult that the job that comparative has comparatived. Frustrate feeling and lose move are sharper and sharper. 字串5

Always execute lifelong recruit the Japanese man that make most those who be afraid of is unemployed, this kind of unemployed and scared disease is being permeated to Chinese man nowadays, our country is not fortunately little the mechanism of choose and employ persons of enterprise, company already more and more be full of flexibility, the obtain employment idea of practitioner also is in produce tremendous change, adherence and leave also be one individual ability and quality no longer to measure a level.

The professional man of 35 years old of above is right unemployed, find new job have not cannot accept, but leave tremendous snake in the grass for its however. Press Wang Dong's view, this one age paragraph man energy, physical strength is compared with youth photograph unlikely, again the opportunity of obtain employment is inferior to much before, and after paying skill aggrandizement cost, whether the use on the clique is not knowable also; General the man of this age has a room, unemployed meeting lets them feel abrupt bipod is impending, be driven to the last ditch.

To this, chen Jun of secretary-general of center of countrywide talent flow thinks, this one age paragraph professional male should establish crisis consciousness in the job, face unemployment with active state of mind, even if is sufferred inflict heavy losses on, also want hard to strive for all sorts of opportunities, all-around the knowledge of contented oneself and skill.

Brother: Be not touched!

The man often looks very again to the bosom friend of hard-earned, brother. But in intense duty field competition, concern is short of break friendship or be in to lose friendship affliction, had become the common fault of professional male.

Be engaged in the Xiaomo that medicines and chemical reagents sells alling sorts of feelings well up in his heart because of this. The brother of a brotherly love of he and high school times was not contacted one year already quickly. When good-bye face, both sides had quite big diaphragmatic.

Male of a lot of professions has this to plant hard the dismay of divert oneself from loneliness or boredom. Friendship always is as good as a man childhood and pure student times closely related, also be a man place without the affection that profane before the duty field that walks into miserable intense, it touched the part with man the softest heart. Cong Mou is planted say on degree, between the friend give aid to each other often become a man to continue to spell killed main motive force, once lose, always let lungs of heart of person painful thorough.