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Case: Tall gentleman (some landed company boss) : I this year 37 years old. From the university 15 years ago graduation builds up from nothing to today, although dare not say,be the career is become greatly, but dry also gave dot result, earned dot money. Ordinarily, I should content with one's lot, should feel very happy to just be opposite. But I always feel to resembled what be short of. One day, I because individual soulful thing, want to look for a friend to chat. Can discover suddenly, beside unexpectedly the open-armed friend that neither one suits to talk about these. Contrary, have a meal talk about the business, those who hold a person in the palm to seek way " companionate " I have many, but mixing is profit impact between them, want to talk about feeling really, total something wrong interest. At that time I just understand, I most those who be short of is open-armed friend.
When actually I just graduated, have two special the friend that be close friends: One cries " grey wolf " , it is college fellow student, follow my keep no secrets from each other formerly, but I spell a career all the time later, contact with him less and less, he made an appointment with me to follow classmate party many times, I also do not have time to attend, do not know he went where now, also do not know he can blame me insufficient friendship. Another good friend is Laocao, we enter a career formerly together, show utter devotion, but the dissension that goes up because of the job once, we part company, form strangered together. After-thought rises, I went all out career, lost friendship however, do not know the value nots worth really, how do also knowing take this one step? Do I am particularly depressedly now, the mood is quite low. 字串1
Analysis: Such example is in image height gentleman not scarce today. Their mainest problem, manage friendship without serious ground namely. 20 years old when the left and right sides is young still, they do not have money, dan Youyong gas and self-confident heart; Without influence, but capable to mix confidence. This moment, the youth of a batch of have a common goal, form a good friend very easily. This friendship is very precious.
However, grow as the age, go as the career " ascent " , we should spend more idea to arrive on the career necessarily, then, the problem arose. If you place career and money in life the first of pursuit from beginning to end, your human relationship can appear: Who is advantageous to my career, who can satisfy my money, will to power, I contact many a little bit with who, go a few nearlier. Then, gather beside you, it is " the interest is companionate " . alleged " one takes on the color of one's company, close Chinese ink person black " . These people are for the interest as much and interact with you, talk about the business, have a meal sing, fawn on, they go, cannot become an intimate namely. As to you in those days Where is those good friends? You are not to do not have time to look for them actually, just you spend time in you to think on the most important thing. As time passes, you estranged. Still having is image height gentleman and Laocao such, originally have a common goal, but as respective development, pursue gradual change achieve one's ambition different, path shoulded not, the friend concerns also with respect to disintegrate. When entering a career, perhaps you are too busy attend to these, but wait for your career to have, one day when past of turn one's head, can abrupt discovery: Alas, I do not have a friend, my happiness is not so complete.